Friday, August 8, 2014

What the Hell Happened??!!.. Oh Yea, I know...



WOW.. let me just repeat.... WOW!!! I was going to delete a lot of the entries or at least clean them up a little because 1) they're absolutely pathetic, depressing and unbearable to read and 2) a little too wacky and off the wall.  My mind definitely wasn't there, literally.  Instead, I chose to leave everything where it is. (also, I literally couldn't take myself through reading all of that past shit) I'm keeping everything put to show my journey.  To show you where I came from, what I'm doing, and where I'm going... the struggles, triumphs and little woo hoo's. 


If you haven't gotten it yet, I'm a bit of a basket case with a splash of hope!  I have what the professionals call "Depression and Anxiety"... who'da thought! Nah, I've know that shit for years.  I've stuffed those emotions down for years.. or so I thought.  And get this, one day... or slowly over the course of days or years, those emotions just decided to leak out and I had no idea how to fucking deal with them. (excuse my profanity... just kidding!) That's when I went kind of bat shit crazy. Dear Lord, if you could have actually read the personal journal entries I wrote... Well, maybe someone would have read them and maybe I would have gotten the help a little sooner.  But, you know what, I've learned (and God, I have learned so many things over the past few months) that Life Works on its Own Time and on its Own Terms.  Also, and this is such a cliché that most people hate hearing but I truly and absolutely believe in : Everything Happens for a Reason.  The point that I hit my breaking point was the time that I was ready to start changing... for the better... for myself.  I was dying inside, keeping the "secrets" away from everyone, trying to "keep up face", clearly not doing such a great job at it.  I was trying to be the independent one, showing everyone that I was ok and didn't need help. (Clearly, I did)  I couldn't hold myself together anymore.  So many variables added up to this point that I had never realized and I was in such denial about so much.  I was literally out of my mind.  Thank God for God, first of all. (yes, I do have God in my life) And also, thank God for my Family and Friends, who love me unconditionally... who really knows where I would be... I would rather not think about that part.

I may not be ready to write about the actual details of what occurred these past few months but I can write about the feelings involved.  I know that others will relate. "Our stories may not all be the same but we can all identify." I know that not many people read this blog but that's ok.  I love writing and getting out what I have inside of me and this is the perfect place for me to display whatever kind of creativity I decide to conjure up... if "creativity" is the word that even fits. 
                                                                                                               

                                                                                                                                    --Bean


You fall, You Rise, You Make Mistakes, You Live,
 You Learn. You're Human, Not Perfect.  You've Been
Hurt, But You're Alive.  Think of What a Precious Privilege it is to Be Alive - to Breathe,
to Think, to Enjoy, and to Chase the Things You Love.
Sometimes There is Sadness in Our Journey But there is Also Lots of Beauty .
We Must Keep One Foot In Front of the Other Even When
We Hurt, For We Will Never Know What is Waiting For Us  Just Around the Bend.

-Unknown

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